Tuesday, July 25, 2006

Points to Ponder

Which hurts more?... "Finding that your ex-boyfriend who broke your heart last year is now engaged with a girlfriend he has for three months" or "Being engaged with a guy whom you think and most people think is not good for you but yet you are blinded by love."

Oh well, I guess the latter does not really hurt at once coz you may not know what is wrong at that time since love makes you blind but eventually, you will suffer too especially when you're living together already. Love is not always in its honeymoon stage and you cannot survive by love alone. Also, it is a natural reation to feel bad when you find out that someone in your past has found his happiness and is ready to take the next step with another person that he wasn't able to give you. That hurt doesn't last long though, it is just an after-shock effect of the pains of your break up.

Ever wonder why this person is so madly in love with that someone even if you don't see that someone as pretty, nice and worth loving? What makes him fall for her? What makes him want to spend a lifetime with her? The only answer is "compatibility." There is such thing as "match." A barong tagalog can never go well with a pair of jeans (be it True Religion, Seven, or Rock & Republic) but it will definitely look good with a pair of gray or black slacks (na gawa ng kapitbahay nyong mananahi na si Aling Mila).

Don't try to overanalyze things and don't question your worth when things don't go your way. Whether you're a jello, a creme brulee, minatamis na saging, nata de coco, etc, there's someone who thinks you're the best thing ever and wants to even have you everyday.

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